If you're still thinking you probably couldn't benefit from coaching ... well, maybe you're right.
Plenty of evidence says people do amazingly better with a coach, regardless of what they want to accomplish, but maybe you don't want to.
Maybe you're happy where you are ... trying not to think about how life could be or what you could have.
On the other hand, you've got three weeks until Valentine's Day. Just for a moment, I'd like you to be selfish. Forget your partner, your family, your work ... just think about yourself. Do you love and care about yourself? Do you want the best possible outcomes for yourself? Imagine for just a moment what that would be like for you ... one of your biggest dreams, coming true. Pretty cool, huh?
OK, back to reality. Is there any reason why you wouldn't take steps to make that happen?
That's your first coaching session, right there. Get familiar with that question, and ask it a lot. "Is there any reason why?" You see, most of the time there isn't a reason; it's just easier to say no. But on the rare occasion there actually is a reason, well, you'll find out what it is so you can deal with it. It's a handy tool that everyone can use. The more you use it, the more you'll love it!
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